Relationship Intensives


Therapy tailor-made for modern couples.

Embark on a transformative journey with a relationship intensive. 

Relationship Intensives are tailor-made relationship experiences for motivated couples. They are for couples ready to set aside time to work on their relationship in a highly efficient and enriching way, without the “start-stop” and scheduling hassles of weekly couples therapy sessions. This model of couples therapy is newer, but gaining momentum quickly because it is so effective. You can read a recent article here interviewing my trainers about intensives.

Relationship Intensives are specially designed for your relationship needs and goals. Imagine replacing months of therapy with two days of deep, focused work that can create breakthroughs, accelerating the healing and growth process. You’ll leave with practical tools for effective communication and conflict resolution, ready to continue your journey toward a healthier relationship.

It’s time to try something different. With this transformative relationship intensive, you’ll step toward a healthier, more fulfilling relationship, experiencing renewed understanding, empathy, and love.

How does it work?

I work one-on-one with you and your partner, using my proven methods of working through months of couples relationship therapy in just a few days. There are several options to consider: I offer half-day, one-day and two-day intensives either in person in Anchorage, AK, San Francisco, CA, Eugene, OR, or online.

You will quickly discover your triggers for anger and the toxic relationship dance pattern, move from shame and blame to a transformational way to relate to each other and create an effective roadmap with a deeper sense of empathy and understanding.

Your relationship intensive will provide you with in-depth support and intensively focused sessions. You will be guided toward healing and learn how to become grounded in a radically different approach to communication and deep connection. 

After the intensive, we continue working together as needed through scheduled follow-ups or future intensives.

Included in Each Relationship Intensive Package


  • Immediately effective communication techniques and the neuroscience behind them
  • You and your partner’s attachment and arousal styles 
  • How to care for and soothe yourself and each other 
  • How to “read” your partner 
  • How to fight fair so that you both win
  • How to engage in non-violent and productive communication 
  • How to become more intimate 
  • How to move toward secure functioning in your partnership.